Work problems, getting married, going away to school, an illness — any number of life changes can cause stress. Most of the time, people adjust to such changes within a few months. But if you continue to feel down or self-destructive, you may have an adjustment disorder.

What is it?

  • Work problems, getting married, going away to school, an illness — any number of life changes can cause stress. Most of the time, people adjust to such changes within a few months. But if you continue to feel down or self-destructive, you may have an adjustment disorder.
  • An adjustment disorder is a type of stress-related mental illness. You may feel anxious or depressed, or even have thoughts of suicide. You may not be able to go about some of your daily routines, such as work or seeing friends. Or you may make reckless decisions.
In essence, you have a hard time adjusting to change in your life, and it has serious consequences.
  • You don't have to tough it out on your own, though. Treatment of an adjustment disorder may help you regain your emotional footing. Most adults get better within just a few months, although teenagers may struggle longer. Treatment may also help prevent an adjustment disorder from becoming a more serious problem.
  • Symptoms

    The signs and symptoms of adjustment disorders vary from person to person. The symptoms you have may be very different from those of someone else with an adjustment disorder. But for everyone, symptoms of an adjustment disorder begin within three months of a stressful event in your life.

    Emotional symptoms of adjustment disorders

    • Sadness
    • Hopelessness
    • Lack of enjoyment
    • Crying spells
    • Nervousness
    • Thoughts of suicide
    • Anxiety
    • Worry
    • Desperation
    • Trouble sleeping
    • Difficulty concentrating
    • Feeling overwhelmed

    Behavioral symptoms of adjustment disorders

    • Fighting
    • Reckless driving
    • Ignoring bills
    • Avoiding family or friends
    • Poor school or work performance
    • Skipping school
    • Vandalism

    Length of symptoms

    How long you have symptoms of an adjustment disorder also can vary:

    • Six months or less (acute). In these cases, symptoms may go away on their own, especially if you actively follow self-care measures.
    • Longer than six months (chronic). In these cases, symptoms continue to bother you and disrupt your life. Professional treatment can help symptoms improve and prevent the condition from continuing to get worse.


    • People of all ages are affected by adjustment disorders. Among children and teenagers, both boys and girls have about the same chance of having adjustment disorder. Among adults, women are twice as likely as men to have adjustment disorder. But researchers are still trying to figure out what causes adjustment disorders. As with other mental disorders, the cause is likely complex and may involve genetics, your life experiences, your temperament and even changes in the natural chemicals in the brain.

    Stressful events

    One or more stressful life events may put you at risk of developing adjustment disorder. It may involve almost any type of stressful event in your life. Both positive and negative events can cause extreme stress. Some common examples include:

    • Being diagnosed with a serious illness
    • Problems in school
    • Divorce or relationship breakup
    • Job loss
    • Having a baby
    • Financial problems
    • Physical assault
    • Surviving a disaster
    • Retirement
    • Death of a loved one
    • Going away to school

    In some cases, people who face an ongoing stressful situation — such as living in a crime-ridden neighborhood — can reach a breaking point and develop an adjustment disorder.

    Your life experiences
    If you generally don't cope well with change or you don't have a strong support system, you may be more likely to have an extreme reaction to a stressful event.

    Some studies also suggest that your risk of an adjustment disorder is higher if you experienced stress in early childhood. Overprotective or abusive parenting, family disruptions and frequent moves early in life may make you feel like you're unable to control events in your life. When difficulties then arise, you may have trouble coping.


    Most people find treatment of adjustment disorder helpful, and they're in treatment only for several months. Others may benefit from longer treatment, though. There are two main types of treatment for adjustment disorder — psychotherapy and medications.


    The main treatment for adjustment disorders is psychotherapy, also called counseling or talk therapy. You may attend individual therapy, group therapy or family therapy. Therapy can provide emotional support and help you get back to your normal routine. It can also help you learn why the stressful event affected you so much. As you understand more about this connection, you can also learn healthy coping skills. These skills can help you weather other stressful events that may arise in your life.


    In some cases, medications may help, too. Medications can help with such symptoms as depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. Antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications are the medications most often used to treat adjustment disorders. As with therapy, you may need medications only for a few months.

    Lifestyle solutions

    When you face a stressful event or major life change, you can take some steps to care for your emotional well-being. Do what works for you. Some examples include:

    • Talking things over with caring family and friends
    • Trying to keep eating a healthy diet
    • Sticking to a regular sleep routine
    • Getting regular physical activity
    • Engaging in a hobby you enjoy

    If it's your child who's having difficulty adjusting, you can help by:

    • Offering encouragement to talk about his or her feelings
    • Offering support and understanding
    • Reassuring your child that such reactions are common
    • Touching base with your child's teacher to check on progress or problems at school
    • Letting your child make simple decisions, such as what to eat for dinner or which movie to watch